I Advise You To Like Me As Soon As Possible

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Ning Wan has been able to communicate with the big par who is about to join the firm by email every day recently. As for the case of the other party, Ning Wan has become more and more comfortable in analyzing the case. There seems to be a tacit understanding between them. I have to say that a big par is a big par. Sometimes the other party just makes a simple point, but Ning Wan is often enlightened after reading it, and the other party is not good at being a teacher. Many of the points are also pointed to, leaving room for Ning Wan to think. , In addition to the case, Ning Wan also asked for some doubts on her career planning, and the other party also gave answers carefully and patiently, and even shared a lot of her personal experience and understanding.

Although Ning Wan has never met the big par in person, Ning Wan has been with the other party for a long time, and she is full of trust and respect for the other party psychologically, and the idea of ​​joining his team is even stronger.

Ning Wan was originally very interested in community work, but now she has new motivation and goals, and she is more energetic every day.

Early in the morning, she solved several telephone consultations, and when she was free, she remembered to take good care of Chen Shuo——

"Did you feel better after chatting with Dr. Zhao yesterday? Do you still have the urge and frustration to end your life?"

Chen Shuo didn't look very good. He glanced at Fu Zheng who was sitting on the other side with a bad expression, and then squeezed out a smile at Ning Wan: "It's much better." Chen Shuo continued as if he was trying to suppress his emotions. , "I don't want to die." He glanced at Fu Zheng again, "After all, I thought about it, I haven't found a girlfriend yet, so I can't die yet."

"Yes!" Ning Wan patted Chen Shuo's shoulder, "Just figure it out! Would you like me to introduce it to you? What style do you like?"

"No." Chen Shuo pursed his lips, "I..."

It's a pity that he was interrupted by a knock on the door before he had time to say "there is someone you like".

The person leaning against the door was a slender figure. Now the temperature in Rongshi is not low, but the other party is still fully armed, wearing thick long-sleeved trousers, a hat, and an autumn and winter scarf around his neck. There was a pair of sunshade mirrors on his face, and he looked a little timid, but although the clothes were very strange, the other party's behavior was very gentle and reasonable - the door of the community office was open all the year round, So few people deliberately knock on the door so politely before entering.

"I'm sorry to bother you, I want to consult about divorce..."

The other party's voice was soft and tactful, which could be described in a soft voice. It was a very comfortable female voice, with a slight choking, which made Ning Wan feel a little familiar, so she hurriedly ushered him in: "Come in, if you can bring it to you. Can you briefly describe your situation? Why do you want a divorce?"

The other side walked in timidly, turned around and looked at the door: "Can... can you close the door?"

Before Ning Wan spoke, Fu Zheng and Chen Shuo got up at the same time to close the door. In the end, Fu Zheng was taller and had longer legs and arrived at the door earlier than Chen Shuo, and closed the door according to his words.

Divorce cases involve a lot of personal privacy. This consultant is very young, and it is normal to focus on protecting his privacy and not wanting to be interrupted.

It's just that after Fu Zheng closed the door, the other party was obviously still frightened. Her voice was choked with anxiety: "Can you lock the door?"

"I'm going!" This time Chen Shuo almost hurriedly said, and immediately trotted and locked the door in front of Fu Zheng.

On weekdays, Ning Wan would definitely lament the positivity of Fu Zheng and Chen Shuo, but at this moment, she frowned as she looked at the client sitting at her desk, as if she remembered who they were.

Seeing that the door was locked, the other party seemed to finally let go of the tight strings, so he was less timid and alert, and then took off his hat.

Originally, if she didn't pick Ning Wan, she just thought it was strange that the other party was wearing so many clothes. When the other party actually took off her hat, then took off her glasses, and took off her scarf, Ning Wan's mood became heavier as she moved.

The other party's face was blue and purple, and one eye was still swollen and bloodstained. Only a little iodine was applied hastily around the eyes, and the yellow smudged on the skin made her injury even more shocking. A small swollen eye can only be opened a slit, the corner of the mouth is also broken, and there is a blood scab, the whole face can't see the gentle facial features from the last consultation, like a mask Dirty canvases smeared at will, dilapidated, decadent and gloomy.

Ning Wan's heart froze heavily.

She remembered very clearly that a few months ago, this young woman came to her for consultation. She had a wound on her face and tears in her eyes. She wanted a divorce because of her husband's domestic violence.

Ning Wan has a habit of recording the consultations she has handled, and the records of domestic violence cases are more detailed than usual. She clearly remembered that she had instructed the other party to report to the police at that time, and taught the other party how to keep the records of domestic violence cases. Evidence, also expressed willingness to provide legal aid.

In the follow-up, the other party did not ask Ning Wan to proceed with the divorce, and she was not too surprised, because the young client at that time seemed to have a good family background, and his conversation was gentle and polite, and his speech was clear and logical. At first glance, he was highly educated. Clients whose conditions are not too bad may not be willing to choose community lawyers in the end. After all, community lawyers give most people the feeling that they are of an assistance nature. People generally have a perception that free or cheap products are not good, so many conditions are acceptable. Clients are more likely to spend money on a SC. It's just the tragic appearance of the young woman in front of her. She probably did not really find a lawyer to sue for divorce after consulting herself...

"Lawyer, I want to sue for divorce, I was beaten by my husband... I'm afraid it will continue like this

, I will be killed by him..."

The young woman's voice was hoarse and choked, but her eyes were so dull that she couldn't cry, and when she opened her mouth, Ning Wan realized that she was missing half of one of her front teeth, which she thought was interrupted by her husband...

Chen Shuo had never met the other party, but Fu Zheng had, too. He glanced at Ning Wan solemnly, and obviously recognized the other party: "Can you tell us what's going on?"

It was probably that the locked door finally gave the other party a sense of security, and the young woman looked around timidly again, and finally cried out: "Please, save me!"

Her emotions were agitated, and her mental state seemed a little dazed, but in the intermittent narrative, Ning Wan and the three finally understood the truth—

The young woman's name is Shu Ning, and as expected, she is a top student with a doctorate in mechanical engineering.

"My husband Yu Feiyuan is my master and doctoral classmate. Because I follow the same mentor, I often work together when doing projects and experiments. It is also a major, and there are a lot of common topics. We were together in the second year of research. When we went to school together before, he took good care of me. It was very stressful for me to do my dissertation for a doctorate. We also supported us together. It was a true friendship in adversity.

"Originally, I had already received a job offer from the R\u0026D department of a large multinational company. I really wanted to go to work. I always used contraception, but I didn't expect an accident. At that time, it was found out that I was pregnant. I just got pregnant, so I decided to take care of my husband at home and then work on my career. It happened that my husband also submitted a resume to this company. I was the first in the interview and written test overall ranking, and he was the second. I gave up the offer and just accepted him. In this way, I also feel that there is no waste, and the fat and water will not flow to outsiders, and I was very happy at the time, after all, this job is considered a very good professional counterpart for us, and the starting point is high and the income is generous."

When I mentioned this, it was about recalling the beauty of the past. Compared with the tragic situation of the present, it was more depressing. Shu Ning's face showed pain: "I was really happy at the beginning, Feiyuan was also very good to me, he is outside me. In the Lord, he was very considerate to me during pregnancy, and he was also very considerate after the birth of our daughter, our family of three had a very good time, but..."

Shu Ning suppressed his crying: "I just didn't expect him to change... Since the child went to kindergarten at the age of three, he has changed, and he has become irritable and sensitive. At first, he quarreled with me and threw things at will, and then he became A slight shove, and then..."

Ning Wan's heart is bitter and depressed. The escalation pattern of domestic violence cases is always similar, but few victims will realize that it is not that the person has changed, but that the other party has always been such a person, falling in love and just entering the marriage. Sometimes he wears the skin of self-beautification, and as time goes by, his nature will gradually be revealed...

Shu Ning's tone was still puzzled and broken: "I also came to consult last time, and it was the first time I was beaten. I couldn't believe that he would treat me like this, thinking about divorce, but later Feiyuan apologized. , I also said it was not an example, so I forgave... But I never imagined that my forgiveness not only failed to restore his heart, but also made him worse..."

Ning Wan's expression was serious: "Did you call the police this time?"

"Not yet..." Shu Ning muttered, "He is beating me very hard now, and he is watching me too closely, and he will not allow me to go out. This time I sneaked out, and I am afraid that I will wait for the police after I call the police. Let's go, he beat me even harder..." She looked at Ning Wan begging for help, "Lawyer, help me, can you help me get a divorce? Can you help me fight for custody of my children? I don't care about money, I only care about money. I want my daughter!"

"Did you call the police last time? Did you install a camera at home? Did you take a video of the other party beating you?"

This is the operation that Ning Wan taught her in detail when Shu Ning came to consult her last time, but judging from the look on Shu Ning's dodging look at the moment, it should not be...

"Is there any witnesses such as neighbors that can prove his domestic violence?"

Shu Ning shook his head and cried again: "I didn't dare to speak out when I was beaten, otherwise I would be beaten even more fiercely..."

Although Shu Ning didn't finish her sentence, Ning Wan could probably understand that a high-level intellectual like her usually wants to save face.

But there is no police record, no video evidence, and no witnesses... Although Shu Ning's injuries are still unhealed, if he didn't call the police immediately after being injured, even if he called the police later, it would be difficult to prove that the injuries were caused. Domestic violence, from her husband.

"Why didn't you take any measures last time?" Ning Wan only felt a bad anger in her chest, "If you had taken measures then, you wouldn't be so passive now."

Shu Ning lowered his head and wiped away tears: "Last time when I went home, he knelt down and admitted his mistake, and slapped himself more than a dozen times in the face. With that force, his whole face was swollen. When he said that I was going to get a divorce, he knelt down and kowtowed to me, his head was bleeding, and he kept apologizing to me, saying that he was under a lot of work pressure and was in a bad mood, and that he beat me in confusion for a while, and he would never do it again.”

"I have been in a relationship with him for so many years. When I think about the details of the previous relationship, the kindness he treated me, I just... and the child is still so young, if divorced, the child will be a single-parent family without a father since childhood. I think about it. , considering that it was indeed the first time, he forgave him, and he also wrote me a letter of guarantee, saying that he would not do it again next time."

What a similar story, the more Ning Wan listened, the more heavy and sighed her heart became: "But later he 'couldn't control his temper', so he beat you again, and then he cried all kinds of tears, admitted mistakes, and knelt down, you forgive me again. He, and then he 'lost his temper' again and couldn't hold it back until later

Getting heavier and hitting you like this? "

Shu Ning was stunned for a while, then nodded, her expression was bitter: "Yes... I didn't expect that my tolerance would end up in exchange for this, I... I even resigned so that he wouldn't be so stressed or angry. now..."

Hearing this, Fu Zheng also frowned: "You mean, your current state is unemployed?"

No words are needed. For Shu Ning, this may just be a casual question, but Ning Wan knows what Fu Zheng means. Since Shu Ning wants to divorce and fight for custody of the children, can she prove herself with a legitimate occupation? Having a stable income is critical.

Shu Ning's children are no longer infants, except that infants tend to be awarded to their mothers. Older children follow the principle of how to better their children's lives when making custody judgments. Many full-time wives lose custody of their children when they go to court. That's it, with no income and no ability to find work again, years of full-time living have destroyed the careers of these mothers.

"Well." Shu Ning didn't know these twists and turns, she lowered her head and explained, "After giving birth to my daughter, I took care of the child at home, but the child has gone to school now, and I have free time. I have read a doctorate in mechanical engineering, so don’t waste it. I also submitted my resume to the company Feiyuan. I regretted losing the opportunity because of an unexpected pregnancy, and I wanted to work with him. "

"So the resume you submitted was lost in the sea and no one was willing to admit it?"

Ning Wan is a little regretful, but women returning to the workplace after marriage and childbirth are full of ups and downs. Although Shu Ning is highly educated, she is pregnant and has children after graduation, so she lacks work experience, but she does not have the age advantage of fresh graduates. Having children at home is bound to be difficult. It is possible to devote all your attention to work, which is indeed a huge disadvantage in the job search...

It's just that Shu Ning's answer was quite surprising: "No, that company has offered me an offer, and I'm very welcome to go there." Having said this, Shu Ning finally showed the first faint smile since entering the office, "I am in I did my homework before applying for a job, wrote an industry research report on the company's situation, analyzed the advantages and disadvantages of different mechanical devices, and made my own analysis and analysis on a mechanical failure in their star products that is often complained by customers. Suggestion, this report seems to be written in their eyes, and one of their R\u0026D directors interviewed me in person, almost on the spot."

"That's good!" Ning Wan was sincerely happy for Shu Ning, but she was a little puzzled after she was happy, and almost at the same time, Fu Zheng asked what Ning Wan was thinking--

"But why did you resign? Is it because you dislike the work environment and the atmosphere of your colleagues is not good? Or the work intensity is too high? Or something happened at home that requires you to take care of the family?"

Shu Ning shook her head: "None, I like this job very much, my colleagues take good care of me, the children at home are also very good, and I don't get sick when I go to school, so I can do all the homework by myself." She choked again, "I just do it for the sake of Feiyuan only resigned."

Hearing this, Chen Shuo also frowned: "Is he the old way of thinking about a man outside and a woman inside? Do you think it's fine for you to stay at home?"

Shu Ning wiped away her tears: "Yes, he thinks that he has no face when I go out to work. It seems that he can't make money to support his family alone, so he doesn't support me going out very much. I am very unhappy after going to work."

"When I first started submitting my resume, he was not optimistic, and kept attacking me, saying that although I am a doctor, my knowledge in the field of mechanics is changing rapidly, and what I learned before is old-fashioned and useless. Work experience, no one will take a second look at my resume..."

"Anyway, I was very depressed during that time. I thought that my husband said that, let alone the company's personnel. I was very inferior. I had no feedback after investing in a few companies. I felt that I really couldn't do anything. the industry analysis report.”

Hearing this, Ning Wan frowned: "You're going to work, but your husband has been hitting you hard?" "It's not a hit, right? He said he was also doing it for my own good, so he gave me vaccinations first, and now I'm not looking for a job. It's so easy, not to mention that there are many intrigues in the workplace now, he hopes that I will never have to go through these bloody storms, don't see these dirty eyes, just let him guard me." Shu Ning said here, some things are right and wrong She sighed, "He's actually kind to me, except that he hits me when he can't control his temper..." Her eyes turned red again, "Although he's a little macho, he's really good. If you want to protect me, you can support me for the rest of your life, and I am a responsible man..."

At this moment, Ning Wan almost wanted to shake Shu Ning's shoulder to wake her up. For a man to beat a woman, this is downright unacceptable!

What's more...

Just before Ning Wan could speak, Fu Zheng's voice rang out: "A man who said that he will support you for a lifetime, urges you not to go to work, and discourages your enthusiasm for reintegrating into society, is not responsible at all."

"How could that be?" Shu Ning retorted almost subconsciously, "In the years when I was at home with my children and didn't go out to work, he was really kind to me, and he never hit me... Really, we had an affair. The problem started when I went to work. He felt that I was not so devoted to my family and became dissatisfied... That's how I thought of resigning, thinking that after resigning, the conflict between us would not intensify, not to mention him His salary is enough to support his family. But I didn't expect... Even if I resign, his temper seems to have turned completely bad, and we don't seem to be able to go back to the past..."

Having said this, Shu Ning burst into tears again, her tone full of pain and frustration: "If I had known this earlier, I would not have submitted my resume to work at all..."

It's very sad, even Shu Ning didn't realize that her ideas have been washed away by her husband.

She's out of her mind, and she has framed her future for herself - she is a woman with the same educational background as her husband, and she has worked hard to graduate with a doctorate. Stable while developing your business?

"Is this a legal requirement for a female lead inside and a male lead outside? You are also very good, why can't you also have your own piece of the sky? You have never done anything wrong, it is your husband who is wrong." Ning Wan had a stomach in her chest. However, he didn't expect Fu Zheng to be one step faster than her. His tone was serious and cold, but his sentences were sharp and reasonable, "You have the right to choose your own life, and the man who needs you to sacrifice your career and preferences to fulfill him is not at all. What a good match, marriage is a run-in, but it is never a unilateral sacrifice of one party. Your situation clearly allows you to balance your career and family. You have already undertaken more work in the family. Can you get angry and hit someone?"

Shu Ning snorted twice: "I can understand that he sometimes loses his temper. After all, men are under a lot of pressure outside, his performance appraisal is strict, and there is infighting in the workplace and a banquet culture. Although he doesn't like it, he still He has to cater to various dinner parties, often drinking until he vomits before going home, and he doesn’t want it, men are really tired outside, although I have children at home, but in fact life is worry-free, and I don’t have to worry about my livelihood…”

Fu Zheng interrupted Shu Ning with a sneer: "Is this what he told you?"

Shu Ning nodded: "Well, every time he loses his temper and fails to control himself, he will explain in addition to apologizing, it is really difficult for men in modern society..."

"Then is it not difficult for women?" Ning Wan finally couldn't hold it in any longer, "Why can he only see his own difficulties? The male protagonist outside the female protagonist is the path he chooses, so the outside is tired and stressed. , I have to go on kneeling and crawling. All the suffering can only be resolved by myself, rather than venting on the family. Every ordinary person of us lives in this world, who is not tired? He can share the damage of female fertility. And labor pains? Did you vent on him when you gave birth? Did you hit him?"

Shu Ning's gentle appearance is not someone who loses his temper at will, and it is precisely because he is so gentle and easy to talk that he will be taken care of by people like Yu Feiyuan.

"If you say that you will lose your temper and hit others when you are stressed, this is just making excuses for yourself."

He was obviously a victim and a seeker, but at this time, Shu Ning helped Yu Feiyuan to speak: "He just can't control his emotions sometimes, but before I went to work, he was really a good man..."

"A man who can't even control his own emotions can't be said to be a good man at all. In this world, who doesn't endure the fire and live? He has a bad temper and is angry at the company, so why don't you just get angry with him directly? His boss made a decision, but instead vented it on his innocent and weaker wife? This kind of man is bullying the weak and afraid of the strong, but what kind of good man is he?"

Shu Ning pursed her lips, obviously wanting to say something, but in the end she didn't say anything and started crying again.

With her like this, Ning Wan had no choice but to pull out the materials: "Fill out this legal consultation service process sheet, if you can, try to find a job recently, so that it is easier to fight for the custody of the child, If the other party is unwilling to negotiate a divorce, then you will have to sue. Once you go through the litigation process, be prepared for a long-term battle. It is best to separate at this stage. On the one hand, a long-term separation can help prove the relationship is broken. On the other hand, because his family Violent, separation guarantees your safety, if you don’t have a house to live in, go to a hotel first.”

Shu Ning nodded like a life-saving straw.

"And the injury on your face, I think it's just a simple disinfection treatment, can you call the police again and do an injury appraisal? Although the other party will probably not admit that it was hit by himself, we have to keep the evidence. , it might be useful. Do you need us to accompany you?"

Shu Ning shook his head: "It doesn't matter, I can do it myself."

"In addition, I will prepare an agency agreement for you later, sign it if there is no problem, and then I will make a list for you. The original and photocopies of the materials on the list need to be sorted out for me, including the marriage certificate and your marriage certificate. Details of some common property, real estate, and all the evidence that can prove the breakdown of your relationship, it would be better if there is evidence of past domestic violence."

Shu Ning filled out the procedure sheet, left his contact information, and thanked Ning Wan and the three with red eyes again and again. Then he put on his hat and sunglasses, put on a scarf, wrapped himself tightly again, and opened the door. door to leave.

Compared with the opening of his heart just now, as if the locked door was opened, Shu Ning returned to that person who was shrinking, full of insecurity about the surroundings, and even afraid of being hurt at any time.

Ning Wan looked at her back and sighed, Shu Ning could actually have a better life, just like her mother, but the difference was that Shu Ning at least decided to make a change, and her mother...

How much does Chen Shuo know about Ning Wan's family situation? He knows what the domestic violence case means to Ning Wan, and he made a statement almost immediately: "Ning Wan, I will work with you on this case."

Unfortunately, Ning Wan shook her head: "First, this case is not too challenging for you; second, Fu Zheng was there when Shu Ning came to consult for the first time, and he had a clearer understanding of the cause and effect, and he communicated with Shu Ning just now. He also has a lot of him, and obviously he has his own thoughts on such cases. Fu Zheng has no experience in handling marriage and family matters before, so he just took him to get started, so it is more suitable for him to be with me."

"But..." Chen Shuo didn't want to give up the opportunity to handle the case alone with Ning Wan, or even enter her heart, he said hurriedly, "I have never done a housework case before, I came to the community to think too much. In this kind of down-to-earth case, Fu Zheng is a newcomer. If you take him to do this case, he will definitely have a harder time, but I

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"Lawyer Chen, this case has too much negative energy when you hear it. You just got better after Dr. Zhao's enlightenment. You shouldn't take over such a depressing case. It's not good for your condition and easy to relapse." Fu Zheng smiled. Interrupted Chen Shuo, "Let me do it."

...

Ning Wan originally thought of her mother, and felt a little depressed, but seeing Chen Shuo and Fu Zheng's proactive work enthusiasm and mutual understanding and deep friendship, she only felt that there is true love in the world, and the relationship between people , or better than fighting!

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